Are shipping supplies tax exempt?
Only when the material leaves your hands with the product you sold, and only after you hand a resale or exemption certificate to the supplier. Buy the same tape or bubble wrap to use around the shop yourself and it stays taxable, in every state below.
What makes packaging ‘transferred’ rather than ‘used’?
New York defines it exactly: the material has to be physically handed to the purchaser along with the item, free for them to keep or throw away. A box that ships out with a sold product clears that bar; a bin you reuse in the warehouse does not.
Do I need paperwork before I buy, or can I claim it back later?
Before. Suppliers charge sales tax by default and most will not refund it after the fact. Hand over a completed resale certificate at checkout — Texas calls its version Form 01-339 — and the supplier stops charging tax on that account going forward.
Does tape and bubble wrap qualify the same way a box does?
In the states above, yes — New York's own list of exempt packaging names tape, twine and wrapping paper alongside boxes and cartons, and California's container exemption covers wrapping materials the same way. A tape gun or a heat sealer you keep is equipment, not packaging, and stays taxable regardless of the certificate.
Is this the same exemption that covers the shipping charge I bill a customer?
No, and the two get confused constantly. This page is about tax on the boxes and tape you buy. Whether tax applies to the delivery charge on a customer's invoice is a separate question with its own state-by-state rules.